Breakups are tough.In fact, break ups can be some of the toughest experiences we have to face, independent of our age or even our life experience. Whether youre the person who initiated the break up, or the recipient of the heart wrenching words It s over! , there is plenty you can try to get your ex back in your arms.There are a few things however, you should avoid doing at all cost when trying to get your ex back, so pay attention below.
Avoid acting desperate. For the start, distance yourself from your relationship for several weeks and don t contact your ex (especially if you were the one who was dumped!).That s right... I know this is counter intuitive, but that s the best way to go about it initially (and you will be tempted). You don t want to overwhelm your ex with attention, you don t want to appear needy and desperate, no matter what.
Why?Because, human beings are programmed from the start to reject neediness and your ex is not going to come back, just because you beg them and because you are desperate. On the contrary, this might scare them and confirm their decision to break up with you.They have to WANT to come back to you and you are going to achieve that without force, but by letting them miss you for a while and wonder first.2. Don t choose to drink or take drugs to solve your situation.
Honestly, have you ever heard of alcohol making someone more attractive to the point of getting their ex back?See it from the perspective of your ex. If they catch notice that you are downing a bottle of wine before bed, do you think this will make you more attractive in their eyes? At best they might feel sorry for you (but not in a nice way I am afraid)You also run the risk of forgetting all about rule #1 and start calling and begging them.
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